I guess I’m late to the game but I finally moved out on my own. After years of living with parents and then in college and then back to parents while in law school and then with roommates I finally decided to take the plunge and move on my own. And here is what I found- It’s scary!
Okay, so I am a city gal all the way. I also consider myself very bohemian/artsy so what better place for me to move than the arts district. A bit pricey but for the area and cost the space is a good size. Also, the landlord is very flexible so if I have to move before the end of the lease I can and the area is excellent. Close to stores, restaurants, boutiques, night life and the Penn Station. (My parents aren't, they think I should be in the suberbs, I think "why not just wheel me into a nursing home early" because that's how much fun the suberbs feels to me).
But I must admit, I can be a bit of a princess and I can be a type A personality. My apartment is not the high level I’m use to living in (suberbs or city) but I knew that I wouldn’t be having top notch as soon as I moved in. It’s just hard getting use to the “lived in” feel. In essence, say my friends who helped me move in, it’s very New York- take that anyway you want to. I choose to focus on the positive as I like the New York feel and have been busying myself watching the Home and Garden Network with tips on how to decorate in smaller area. Also, the area forces me to stay on point. I live off of a main street so it can be high traffic (can’t even park from 4-6pm on weekdays) so can’t come out of my place looking like I just woke up. Reminds me of when I studied in Central London for law school. I was in a major area (kind of like Soho/Manhattan) so when I went running and had on ill fitting jogging pants and a old tshirt I felt like a slouch next to all the other pedestrians. I vowed to look more together, even when working out or going to the grocery store for just a carton of milk. I’ll be doing the same here!
What makes it scary for me is that I really am on my own. No roommates to watch America’s Next Top Model with (which starts tomorrow!). If there is a noise my cat sure isn’t going to do much but hide next to me. And if I find a bug or mouse, Lord help that landlord because he told me they don’t have pest problems!
I don’t know maybe it’s just the first time jitters and I’ll get through it. All my friends live on their own and I know a few people who live in my neighborhood.
It’s a fixer upper but I’m going to work it out and the landlord said he'd credit me for any imporvements I made/painting I did as long as I cover it with him first. Might take some pictures and show you the after
Anywho, wish me luck!
BTW- until I get my home internet up and running I might be a little delayed on posting on my site and commenting on others. Hopefully I can get that resolved A.S.A.P. cause I'm dying withoiut internet at home (luckily I got my cable installed yesterday to occupy me, I could read though...)
Cara Bermain Permainan Slot Rich Rich Water
3 days ago
7 comments:
Congrats,
I bought a place on my own in Canton back in March and there are still some adjustments not having a roommate even after several months. I love the freedom though and don't know if I would be able to go back.
Hope you enjoy it and make it your own.
Congrats on the new place! I love living by myself. While living alone can at times be a little lonely, its nice to have you're own space and not to have to worry about other peoples messiness, bringing dudes back to the crib, etc.
It sounds like you live just up the street from me. We should kick it sometime. :)
I have always preferred living alone over having room mates. I liked having the freedom to do any thing I wanted to. . .decorate, walk around naked, have company (know what I am saying).
Of course the was many moons ago. Now I have to little room mates who are making it hard for me to the latter two things I have mentioned.
Congrats to you. Enjoy your new found freedom.
I too go insane without my internet.
Since you only have cable for the moment, enjoy HGTV.
There is nothing like living on your own.
good for you now life really begins sister
I only lived on my own for a short period of time, but I have to say, and don't tell my husband (he knows), but I looooved it, absolutely loved it. Prefer it. I was a bit sad when that period was over. It got a little lonely at times, but instead of mope about it, I would go out. Or, maybe get a friend to come over for a little while. Then kick them out when I got tired of them (I'm not that bad, sometimes).
I'm happy for you. You are definitely in a pretty good area. I hope everything works out for you.
living alone is a big step and you are to be applauded.
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