tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1342387521840187396.post6200540931190006280..comments2023-04-10T01:25:16.503-07:00Comments on Thinking Out Loud: 80/20 RuleCC Solomonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13430554149106735210noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1342387521840187396.post-54342772384315451072008-04-21T14:41:00.000-07:002008-04-21T14:41:00.000-07:00Eh, 80/20. That's one way to think about it. Bas...Eh, 80/20. That's one way to think about it. Basically that's like saying "he/she has/does this/that x 8, BUT this/that x 2". This places too much emphasis on little faults when they really should not be a problem in the right person. We all know how those little faults can be made to look like big ones. <BR/><BR/>Maybe instead of trying to find out if someone has 80% of what we want, we should instead think about if you are willing to share 100% of who we are with that person...or 99% ;-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1342387521840187396.post-87881393981353969202007-12-11T07:15:00.000-08:002007-12-11T07:15:00.000-08:00No one is perfect but yet most of us expect perfec...No one is perfect but yet most of us expect perfection. We spend so much time focusing on what he/she doesn't have we forget all the things they do have. <BR/><BR/>I totally agree with you "anonymous" people are looking for someone to complete them and to make them happy. They fail to realize that that happens from within. <BR/><BR/>The key is to find someone who is not only good to you but good for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1342387521840187396.post-49304791198313993392007-11-13T20:08:00.000-08:002007-11-13T20:08:00.000-08:00how about when your 80 starts acting like a damn 2...how about when your 80 starts acting like a damn 20, making the 20's seem 80 - then what!?! :)Michelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01619929119705706108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1342387521840187396.post-74377582694233072552007-11-08T10:32:00.000-08:002007-11-08T10:32:00.000-08:00The "grass is greener" syndrome. I used to spend s...The "grass is greener" syndrome. I used to spend so much time dwelling on the 20% that my husband wasn't instead of focusing on the 80% that he is.<BR/><BR/>I think people spend too much time looking for perfection in a mate. How can you expect to find perfection in someone else when you yourself are not perfect?<BR/><BR/>People need to find a mate that complements, not completes, them. They need to stop over looking the red flags. They need to also think about what they plan to bring to the table.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com